The female orgasm-a rare moment indeed! Only 30% of women will ever experience an orgasm with only 10% of them actually being able to hit their G-Spot and ejaculate fluid. The first time I had an orgasm was actually in the stairwell of a Condo- the experience was unforgettable! I always thought that ALL women had orgasms until my girlfriends and I started talking explicitly about our sex lives. It wasn't long until I found out that most of them have never experienced an orgasm.So why is that so many women are not able to experience an orgasm?-mind you in the 30% of those who do might experience it just only once in their entire life time. But for those that are not able to have one-often they're label as "frigid"-def. (esp. of a woman) unable or unwilling to be sexually aroused and responsive. Now all the women I know love sex and openly claim they're very sexual but being frigid is probably the last thing they want to be labeled as just because they can't climax!
A reason why many women may find it difficult to achieve one is because they've been brought up in a conservative society where aspects of sex is still considered a taboo-like "talking about it", "having pleasure doing it", and even " thinking about it!" It's always been the case that proper girls should be virginal, innocent and this thing called sex is a sinful thing! Girls are suppose to be "lady-like", descent and perform their "duties" to their husband. Now with all those restraints and rules-how was any women suppose to explore her body, let alone her sexuality. Because of this oppression, the topic of orgasm itself is actually a new thing in society. Just 50 years ago-a women having an orgasm was unheard of!
I believe if women just let themselves go and trust the way their body feels...they'll be having orgasms in no time! And having one is literally like ecstasy! You'll loose yourself in those couple of seconds, become light as a feather and just drift drift away...
In the UK Times-Online, a study was done on the female orgasm and what they discovered was that the more orgasms a woman had-the higher her partner's salary would go up! It even said that really wealthy men are able to give women more orgasms than a middle class to upper- middle class man.I guess it's just that!-both parties being able to climax is ten times better ! Better sex is when everyone is in nirvana at the end! If the guy is always the one to have his climax and the girl left to just idle after he is done, rolled over and have fallen alseep-what is she to feel? She would still feel highly aroused, unsatisfied and would want to continue, but we know that can't happen, because he's done! Ladies best advice I can give you if you have one of those roll over partners-rub yourself without any shame or guilt-just enjoy it!
